When we are in school, the guidance from teacher and friends shapes us. Therefore, school plays an important role when handling the peers 's problems especially disciplinary problems.Every school has one or more disciplinary teachers. Although their role is focused on the discipline of the students, everyone else also play an important role in solving the discipline problems.
Because students are closer to their friends, it is easier for them to accept the advice rather than from teachers or anyone else. For example, a friend can sit down and talk together about each others' problems and take advice from each other because they are more comfortable. Next, children should have proper guidance since young because they build their traits young. If they have proper guidance since young, then they will be able to guide themselves correctly as they grow up because they can differentiate right from wrong, and good from bad. We can ensure that by instilling good moral values and discipline since young. This can be done simply by letting them read stories with good moral values in them such as The Boy Who Cried Wolf that teaches us to not lie and always be honest to avoid future problems, The Tortoise and Hare that teaches us to not be arrogant because anyone can beat us even if their chances are slim.
Other than that, we should not treat take their problems lightly because it might or might have been built up since young and the problems will get bigger. We should get to the root of the problem and tackle from there. Although this might take a long time for them to open up, we will be able to solve the problem more effectively than just punishing them each time for their mistakes because they will be misunderstood and keep living in their own agonizing pain away from everyone else.
Last but not least, we should keep an eye out for them. We should always pay attention to their every action so that we can detect more easily when there are changes in their behavior. Therefore, we can get to the problem faster before it gets out of control. We should be patient when trying to help them because they have already isolated themselves from everyone especially if you are trying to help them because they are afraid you might hurt them.
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